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The Language of Love: Speaking Life Into Your Marriage

Our marriages are shaped daily by the words we speak—soft phrases that build connection or sharp ones that quietly create distance. In this post, we explore the power of speaking life, encouragement, and warmth into your relationship. You’ll find simple examples, practical tips, and faith-centered guidance to help you use your words with intention and…

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Autumn of Affection: 5 Small Ways to Reset Your Marriage This Fall

As summer fades and fall begins, it’s the perfect time to reset and refresh your marriage. Whether you’ve felt busy and disconnected or just want to build on what’s already good, small intentional shifts can make all the difference. In this post, we’re sharing 5 simple ways to reset your marriage this fall—practical, heartfelt, and…

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Quick Connection: 10 Everyday Ways to Invest in Your Marriage

Feeling more like roommates than soulmates lately? You’re not alone. In the chaos of everyday life, intentional connection can slip through the cracks. This post shares 10 simple, low-pressure ways to reconnect with your spouse—no grand gestures required. These small, consistent habits can help you close the gap and build a stronger, more emotionally connected…

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The Summer Love Language Guide

Looking for ways to stay connected with your spouse this summer? ☀️ In this post, we’re breaking down the 5 Love Languages—summer edition! From sunset walks and BBQ compliments to surprise iced coffees and no-phone adventures, you’ll find practical, fun ideas to love your spouse well in the middle of the sunshine and busyness. Whether…

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Reignite the Spark: 4 Ways to Cultivate Intimacy This Summer

Feeling more like roommates than soulmates lately? This summer, trade autopilot for intentional intimacy with four simple, meaningful ways to reconnect—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. From device-free dates to daily affection and prayer, this “Summer of Love” is your invitation to reignite the spark in your marriage—one small step at a time.

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In the Exhaustion: How to Love When You Have Nothing Left to Give

Feeling emotionally exhausted and struggling to stay connected in your marriage? You’re not alone. In this post, we explore how to show up for your spouse even when you’re completely drained — without losing yourself in the process. Learn simple, real-life ways to love well in tired seasons, including micro-connection tips, honest communication, and grace-filled…

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Welcome to The Making of Marriage. We have a desire to create a supportive community where couples can find solace, encouragement, and inspiration in knowing that they’re not alone.

Here, we invite you to join us on a journey of growth and love, striving for marriages that are not just surviving but thriving. We believe that every marriage has the potential to be a source of joy, strength, and fulfillment. 

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